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Engaging into sex is about reaching your peak or having an orgasm. A sexual encounter where you didn’t experience orgasm is somehow useless. Aside from feeling unsatisfied, not having an orgasm makes you feel worn out and makes sex pointless.

 

Side Effects of Not Having Orgasm

Not having orgasm during sexual intercourse has several negative side effects. Women who don’t achieve orgasm feel unsatisfied which may lead to more psychological problems. Here are some factors that are affected when a woman does not reach orgasm.

 

Psychological

Every time you have sex, you always expect to reach your orgasm even at least once. If a woman does not reach that point, she will likely experience psychological stresses. In fact, women who do not reach orgasm complain about depression, fatigue or nervous excitement. When a woman is not satisfied, she tends to be easily irritated and grumpy too.

 

Physical

Aside from psychological effects, not reaching orgasm has physical effects too. For example, the lack of satisfaction can actually lead to hysteria and neurosis. It can also cause blood to stagnate in the sex organs which can lead to menstrual disorders. This can even lead to polycystic ovarian disease and fibromyoma.

 

Reasons Why Women Don’t Climax

There are several reasons as to why women can’t climax.

First, some illness or medication can actually hinder someone from achieving orgasm. For example, diseases like cancer or spinal cord injuries can hinder the physiologic process which helps in reaching orgasm.

 

Second, aging can hinder orgasm. As your body ages, your sexual responses are slowing down. This can be explained with the decrease in supply of sex hormones like estrogen.

 

Third, common notions about sex hinders some women to reach orgasm. For example, some religious beliefs think of sex as a lewd act. If you’re a woman who views sex as a bad thing and not as a means of pleasure, it would definitely be hard to achieve orgasm.

 

Fourth, some women may not be that comfortable with intimacy. There are various factors that can lead to this. Either she doesn’t like the guy or she’s not confident about her body.

 

Lastly, conflicts with your partner can lead to your inability to reach orgasm. For example, you may not want to be aroused because you don’t want him to think like he has any effect on you.

 

Solve Your Problems With Toys

Problems of not reach orgasm can greatly be solved by sex toys. Discover how sex toys can give you joy.

 

woman in red braFeeling left out because your partner came too early? This is not a rare problem. Sometimes, men just ejaculate too fast. You can ask your partner to prolong the ejaculation. Better yet, you can ask him to stimulate you first with a dildo or a vibrator.

 

Or, do you not like the way he’s “doing” it but you’re too shy to ask? Try using sex toys to find out how you like it done – fast or slow. By knowing what you like, you can help guide him during your sexual intercourse.

 

Or is your partner kind of weak? Not a problem! You can try pleasuring yourself with vibrators or dildos. Better yet, you can have him use cock rings. Cock rings are perfect for having harder erections longer.

You can also use sex toys as accessories like clit rings.

 

sex problemsMaybe, it’s not him, maybe it’s you. Are you feeling unconfident about yourself? If you’re not satisfied with the way you look, try doing diets or exercise. Give yourself a treat and have a makeover.

Sex toys help you learn more about yourself, what you want and how you want it done. They add spice in your sex life. Aside from that, they help enhance your senses and make you more aware of your inner self.

More than toys, a woman can truly experience great sex if she likes who she’s doing it with. Look for a man you love and loves you too and let sex heat you both up.


1st image by Mislav Mirohnic

2nd image by Gabriel S. Delgado C.

3rd image by rotterdamblues

  

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